DIVORCE:
In the state of Georgia a divorce can be concluded in as little as thirty-one (31) days. Such "quickie" divorce cases are known as "uncontested" because there is a written agreement providing for the distribution of assets and liabilities, and, if there are minor age children resulting from the marriage, a parenting plan, child support worksheets, and a child support addendum as well as certificates of attendance to a children of divorce education program for each parent. Cases involving children can be a minefield for the person who represents himself and for the inexperienced lawyer. When the parties cannot agree to all the terms and provisions necessary for the conclusion of all issues the action is known as "contested'.
"A contested divorce action may, in the best case, be resolved calmly and amicably in a session with a mediator. At worst, a contested case can become a messy, foul, and sometimes hostile affair bringing out the very worst in both parties. In such a case you need a lawyer who can remain objective, keeping a cool head, rather than becoming emotionally involved in the stress and shenanigans that are always present. Most of these cases will take three to six months and both parties will be cooperative and even friendly. However, the worst of these cases can endure for months and even years. So, I like to have frequent and frank discussions about my client's expectations and his or her resources and willingness to invest time and energy. Picking up the pieces and embracing life and its promise of happiness and success should be the ultimate goal."
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